There's No Waffling When it Comes to Breakfast 07/26/24

Did you ever wonder why it is that the more expensive a hotel is, the less they offer for free? You go to a Motel 6 or Super 8, you get free wifi, free cable, and free breakfast. You go to a top hotel, (which we used to do all the time in advertising) they offer fast wifi for $15.99 a night. And for breakfast you can order a $6.00 cappuccino, $21 dollar scrambled eggs (at least the toast is free) and a $9.00 side of bacon (turkey bacon is better for you but requires a $2.00 upcharge). Water? That’s on them unless you want bottled. Oh a little fruit, you ask? Try our fruit cup, which we call a fruit salad, for $14.50. But who cared? The company was paying. Then came holding companies who bought up all the independent ad agencies and made them more “efficient” by firing all the back office workers, and cutting down on how much meal money the employees could charge when they were away from home, in a hotel, and had no choice but to eat out. One of my favorite memories was when I tried to save the company money. I took my laundry to a $10.00 wash and fold laundromat. They handed back my laundry, warm, fluffy and neatly folded for $10.00, as advertised. Trouble was they gave me a hand-written receipt on one of those little green pieces of lines paper you get at diners. I turned the partly-smudged, hand-written receipt in to accounting, and they disallowed it because it wasn't a computerized receipt. I had to eat the $10.00. Lesson learned. Next time I was at the same hotel shooting a different commercial, I had the hotel do my laundry, because they gave computerized receipts. The bill? I kid you not, was $212.00. The company accepted that with no questions. Maybe if they tried allowing hand-written receipts they wouldn’t have had to fire so many workers. Just sayin’.

But onto waffles. This week’s comics are from John’s experiences. I am more of a bacon and egg or breakfast burrito guy (we were always shooting commercials in LA, so they had breakfast burritos instead of breakfast sandwiches). John, as it turns out, is a waffle man. If you are not a waffle aficionado you will likely find that making a waffle with a hotel waffle maker is a complicated experience. And if you want your waffles, it is apparently painful to watch somebody who is in front of you, figure out how to make their waffles. So Marv, who has this in common with John, helps the guy in front of him. Partly because he’s a nice guy. But mainly because he wants to make his own waffles already, dammit! Truth be told, John and his wife attended an out-of-state wedding this weekend, and managed to find a hotel with a waffle maker. We came up with the idea (really he came up with the idea) of doing a two-parter about waffle makers and this past weekend he lived up to the comic. What isn’t clear was whether he put the butter on before the syrup or vice versa. He’s not telling.

Anyway on to the Olympics. Have a wonderful weekend, and if you’re reading this over breakfast, try adding some sliced bananas on top of your Eggos.

Andy and John

Man Plans, God Laughs 07/18/24

Calendars used to mean one thing. There were Playmate of the Month calendars, Sexy Fireman of the Month calendars, and plain old calendars that your mom used to hang up on the wall. Each day had a box and on each box was written the appointments for the day. Pack school lunches 8 am, grocery shopping 9 am, dentist appointment, 11 am. And unless you were a hopeless day drinker (that’s a phrase I wasn’t even aware of until my friend Matt Fischer accused me of it when I wrote him “lmk” instead of “let me know”), most people managed to keep up with these appointments. Even though they were written in pencil or pen, they were written in stone. Nowadays (is that even a word?) things are “written down” electronically. Heck, we even have calendars on our phones. But it seems to me that electronic plans are worth the paper they’re written on. In other words they’re as likely to be canceled as they are to be kept.

John and I have both had extensive dental work done in the past year. Crowns, root canals (trust us, they ain’t beautiful like Venice canals) periodontal cleanings that are worse than filling cavities, you name it, one of us has had it done. And just like the comic, if we had to change the appointment or the dentist had to change it, the next available appointment was months in advance. This is no joke. I had an appointment with a nutritionist (I prefer burgers, dogs and pizza to dark, leafy greens and vegetable medleys) in January of this year. They gave me an appointment in May. I said yes but totally forgot we were going to Greece in May. It was impossible to coordinate a time that worked from Greece so I rescheduled and the earliest they could come up with was late July. At least I think it’s late July, because I can no longer find it on my digital calendar. Sigh. I guess there’s nothing more to be done except to throw a couple of Impossible Burgers on the grill, topped with cheese and not the vegan kind. Although my extremely healthy daughter tells me they have as much saturated fat as the real thing, so on second thought…

Have a great weekend and we’ll see you next Friday. Don’t forget to mark it on your calendar.

Andy and John

Carpenter Bees?

Let me admit to something. Despite running a two-part series on Carpenter Bees, I haven’t the slightest idea what a carpenter bee is. John not only knows what one is, he knows what they do, so I take his word for it. I've heard of carpenter ants (I think). But carpenter bees? I have this image of a bee with goggles and a belt weighed down with heavy tools so that you see its butt-crack every time it bends over, but apparently that’s not what it looks like. According to John, it looks just like a regular bee except instead of buzzing around and pollinating flowers and making honey, this little guy (actually female) likes eating wood. And she pollinates as well but forget the good stuff. This is all about smearing the reputation of the carpenter bee. According to my vast research on these dreaded insects (okay, I just looked it up on Google), they prefer unpainted, weathered wood, especially softer types of wood like redwood, cedar, cypress and pine. Duh. John apparently used one of these types of wood while building the beams on his house and the bees said to themselves, “Whoopee! We’re moving in with John and Linda!” Which begs the question, do bees say stuff to themselves like “whoopee,” but that’s a subject for another blog. On second thought, maybe not.

According to this same website, carpenter bees don’t mean any harm. In fact, the males don’t even possess a stinger (I’m sure there’s a sophomoric sexual entendre in here but I will NOT sink that low) and all the little hole drillers want is to provide a safe environment for their young. Also, only the female is the hole driller which also leads to a sophomoric sexual entendre but this blog is rated PG, so please get your collective minds out of the gutter or at least out of the carpenter hole. The way to eliminate them, according to the website, is to add a protective coat of paint. While this may work in reality, it didn't stop John’s imagination, so he resorted to his inner-Rambo (trust me, he has one. Check out our comic when Al goes shirtless and dons a scarf tied around his head like a headband as he eliminates weeds with a flamethrower) and pulls out the Super Soaker. Ask anyone who’s ever been splashed by a Super Soaker, that stuff hurts! It comes out in a stream so powerful it should have been part of the assault weapons ban. If it feels like that to a fully grown human, imagine what it must feel like to a carpenter bee. We did.

Have a wonderful weekend and add an extra coat of finish to those beams, okay?

Andy and John

Ahh Nature...

Who among us doesn't like nature? Who among us would admit it if we didn’t like nature? Shellie is a city girl. I grew up as a city boy. So I get her. And John gets Sam. Some people know how to pitch a tent. I know how to pitch a baseball. And not that well, mind you. Years ago I took my young son on a baseball trip across the country. When we got to Detroit to see the Tigers we went to their stadium, Comerica Park (what the hell is a Comerica anyway?), and in one of the concourses they had a pitching machine. You stood on a mound 60’6” away from home plate (just like in the big leagues) and throw a baseball while a speed gun tracked how fast you could throw. My son, in his young teens, got up and fired one in at, if memory serves me right, around 62 mph. I chuckled softly and said something like, “Pretty good for a kid. But watch this.” I wound up and fired the ball and the radar gun hit…48 mph. And it hurt my arm. And my ego. Anyway, back to nature. Must we?

We must. My wife and I rent a beach house every summer and we love the idea of eating outside at night. Surrounded by nature. The house has outdoor speakers so you can play music while you eat. The pool has solar lamps around it and the pine trees are backlit. It’s a beautiful setting. Here’s the usual dinner drill: We have guests over. We go outside to set the table, rough-hewn and cut from a tree, place the plates and napkins and wine glasses, light some candles while the grill is grilling something healthy like salmon (except for July 4th and Labor Day when it’s burgers and dogs all the way). We bring out the salad and appetizers and then people start slapping at their necks, their arms, their legs, etc. It’s the damn mosquitoes. Oh we’ve tried citronella candles, an electronic device that emits a “non-toxic mist guaranteed to keep the bugs away,” and then invariably we ask, “Would everybody be happier taking their dinner inside?’ At first there’s a tentative, “If that’s what you want,” which immediately turns into a groundswell of “Yes!!!” as everyone runs inside, nature be damned.

I think the point is (is there really a point?) not that some people abhor nature. It’s that they’re simply uncomfortable around it. And yeah okay, some people abhor nature. You either grow up in a house in the country with two dogs or in the city with none. Where other people see wonder and beauty in a baby fawn, others see…deer ticks! Let me tell you, having suffered through a near fatal case of Lyme disease in my early 30’s, deer ticks are no picnic, (although I think I got my deer tick bite during a picnic). So while Shellie hates the thought of bats, she hates the mosquitoes even more. Somehow we think she’ll survive. And that little Sammy’s relationship to the great outdoors is shaped more from his dad than his mom.

So have a happy 4th of July. After finishing this blog, I am headed out to commune with nature on the beach. Just me, our guests and the great outdoors, covered with a spf 50 sunscreen, a large, floppy hat, sitting on a Tommy Bahama beach chair under a matching Tommy Bahama umbrella. which no ray of sun is capable of penetrating. Until our party of four decides to pack it up a couple hours later, because, you know, too much sun.

Have a great holiday,

Andy and John

Country Living. 06/28/24

Hurray! Summer’s here! And so are bugs! And mosquitoes! Wait, don’t mosquitoes count as bugs? Never mind. Point is, there’s a lot to love about the summer. And a lot to hate. It seems like there are basically three types of preferences for summer living, among people lucky enough to be able to afford choices for summer living. One group loves the beach. There’s nothing like the sound of the waves crashing on the beach, the gentle ebb and flow of the tide, the squawk of the seagulls, the occasional whale sighting, long walks and cooling dips. There’s nothing like it. Unless you hate sand, have fair skin and don’t want to get sunburned, think it’s a pain in the butt to load your car with Tommy Bahama chairs and umbrellas, coolers, plastic glasses and towels, sunscreen and talcum powder. Talcum powder? Yes there’s a little-known trick for removing the wet sand from your feet before getting back into the car. You sprinkle talcum powder on your feel and ankles. It instantly absorbs the wetness, then you brush it off with your hands and the sand comes completely off with no effort. Now it’s true that talcum powder has been linked to some serious diseases, but man, does it take the sand off! Except for the little grains that find their way into your sandals, the floor mats of the car, the beach house you rented, and of course, the bedsheets.

Another option is the country house. If you’re a country person you probably like hiking, forests, mountains and building stuff with your own hands. A swimming pool is always a nice accessory. Sure there are bugs. And bumpy driveways (John has a long and bumpy driveway that was the inspiration for Sam’s long and bumpy driveway). Full disclosure: John is a country guy, I’m a beach guy. He can build a deck or an outdoor garden or a manly fire pit. If a tree falls, he gets out his chain saw and cuts it into firewood. I can barely get the beach umbrella into the ground (although we have the kind where the end looks like a big plastic screwdriver, so that helps big time). As for firewood, we buy it in bundled logs outside the grocery store.

And then there’s a third type. The stay at home in the city type. Good news: you can easily get into plays and restaurants and comedy clubs and museum exhibitions that are tough to get into when everybody is home. It’s less crowded. There’s less traffic. And it can seem like you have the whole place to yourself. Of course there’s also an unrelenting hot sun bouncing off the pavement when you walk, heaping bags of trash on the street waiting for collection, no place to jump in the water, and you are just counting the minutes or seconds until you are back home. Inside. But no bugs.

The classic push/pull between city and country folk was brilliantly covered in the show Green Acres. Da da duh da da: fresh air! Da da duh da dam Times Square! And in this series we are having fun with Sam’s country enthusiasm and Shellie’s country reticence. But hey, how come there’s no Green Acres chorus about the beach???

Have a happy summer wherever you are and however you choose to spend it and we’ll see you (virtually) next week with our final two installments of Sam and Shellie’s country house.

Andy and John

Gift-Giving. 06/20/24

Remember when our kids were little and they’d bring us gifts from school? The Mother’s Day hearts, outlines of their hands to look like turkeys for Thanksgiving and the Father’s Day ash trays? Ash trays? Yeah ash trays. That’s what dads did back then, they smoked cigars. Handed ‘em out when the kids were first born. We come from a time when a bubble gum manufacturer thought it was a good idea to shred the gum, put it in a resealable pouch, and sell it like the bubble gum version of chewing tobacco. Big League Chew. I confess to stuffing a “chaw” between my cheek and gums on the softball field (to look like a big leaguer) until I realized that you can’t chew the damn stuff until you put it between your teeth. But that was then. As for now, I still have a laminated bookmark from my daughter and a NY Giants coaster from my son. Still use them.

Speaking of gifts, how about the gifts given in wills? There’s an Advertising Hall of Fame ad for Volkswagen back in 1969 (the days after Mad Men) featuring a long line of limos and, in the back, one young man driving a VW Beetle. The announcer reads the last will and testament of the deceased. I’ll spare you the full script but as you see the limos go by and the fat cats in the limos, the announcer says, “To my business partner Jules, whose motto was spend, spend, spend, I leave nothing, nothing, nothing. Finally, to my nephew Harold (the young man bringing up the rear of the procession in his VW), who said a penny saved is a penny earned, I leave my entire fortune of $100 billion dollars.” Now Sam wasn’t going to inherit anything like Harold’s $100 billion. John and I don’t even know how to write that amount down. Suffice it to say it’s a lot of zeros. So we (in the guise of Uncle Eddie) decided to give him a house in the country. Shellie doesn’t know from country. Green Acres here we come.

That’s it for this week. Have a terrific weekend in the country, unless you’re like Eva Gabor, in which case you want to tell us “Dahling I love you but give me Park Avenue,

Andy and John

Whose Line is it Anyway? 06/14/24

Ever been to Costa Rica? You can’t go there without experiencing a zip line and getting to rappel down a waterfall. Fun. Unless you’re terrified. One of us is that way. Here’s a hint: John once parachuted out of a plane. I still refuse to go off the high diving board at the local pool. As it happens, the both of us, at completely different times, went with our families to Costa Rica. You can have a beautiful vacation on the beach or you can have an eco-vacation in the rainforest. My family did a little of both. We actually had to rappel down a waterfall, each time you let go of the rope to descend you bounced your feet off the rock. And your feet got soaked because you were hitting the waterfall. Now I was wearing open-toed Keen’s sandals, a shoe that is so ugly, a female comedian friend of mine referred to them as “deal breakers.” But I digress. The point is, the looser you hold the rope, the more freely and effortlessly you descend. But if you are terrified you hold on to the rope tightly. Which results in you taking twice as long as it should and a pair of rope-burned hands. But that is nothing when compared to a zip line. For those of you who have never experienced one, you climb up a ladder perched against one tree. The trip organizers put a helmet on you, gloves to protect against those previously mentioned rope burns, and hook up your safety vest to a safety harness. In sum, you are pretty safe. The only thing you can’t do is panic and apply the brake too soon. If you do this, you won’t have enough momentum to reach the tree and platform on other side. Instead, you’ll just hang down from the middle of the rope while everyone laughs at you as you now have to propel yourself hand over hand to get to the other side. Exhausting and humiliating at the same time. Not that I’d know. So John and I thought it would be funny to have a terrified Marv have to take the zip line to get to the reception for Sid’s wedding. Our choice came to Marv and his bulk, tie flapping in the wind, vs. an older woman with a clutch and her pearls flapping in the wind. We looked at each other and decided nobody would know who that woman was (heck, we didn’t know who that woman was) and decided to have Marv go along for the ride.

Then there’s the other kind of line we like to avoid. The line at the prescription drug counter. There’s a couple of reasons we find ourselves on these lines more than we’d like. One reason is we ain’t exactly getting younger. And the other more sinister reason is we are being targeted by pharmaceutical ads. All the shows we watch, like nightly news, cable news, golf tournaments, TONY Awards, they see us coming. And every single ad is either an insurance ad or a pharmaceutical ad. And of all the pharmaceutical ads in all the world, the one that drives John, me and a host of other people crazy is the ad for Jardiance, the little pill with the big STOR-ee to tell. As far as I know, you emphasize the second syllable, sto-REE, not the other way around. In musical terms it’s a syncopation - “a disturbance or disruption of the regular flow of rhythm.” Another sterling example is the jingle for the charity Kars for Kids. They sing, “do-NATE your car today.” So one issue is how badly the songs are written and the other one is you can’t get the damn thing out of your mind. At least we can’t. So have a wonderful weekend and in an effort to get those songs out of your head, just remember, we all live in a yellow submarine.

Andy and John

First World Problems. 06/07/24

Of all the problems in the world, having too much money to spend doesn't seem like a biggie. But we’ve seen it before. Professional athletes, actors or app developers, hedge funders and corporate lawyers who earn untold riches before they’re old enough to understand it’s not going to last forever. I know of a certain actor who lives in a fancy building in Brooklyn. There’s a rooftop deck for the building. Said actor (trust me, you know him) bought 3/4 of the deck, the part with views of the Manhattan Skyline, the New York Harbor and the Statue of Liberty for himself, and let the other 29 tenants split the 1/4 of the roof that’s left. The part without the views. And this from a guy that probably spends no more than 4 weeks a year there. Yeah, that kind of money. Or there’s the recent example of a 22-year-old multimillionaire athlete who covered the floor of a strip club with $100 dollar bills so his friends could have unlimited fun.

We didn't give Sid that kind of money, but close. What would he do with it? What would we do with it? You’d like to think you’d be responsible, but hey, why settle for a mere car when you can just as easily afford a Maserati? Thank goodness the comic doesn’t make the kind of money. The kind that would give John or me the type of aforementioned trouble our young billionaires have to deal with. On the other hand, as The Beach Boys once sang, “Wouldn't it be Nice?” The point is that while we would be sorely tempted to do crazy things with unlimited money, we’re in our 60’s (okay, okay, one of us is in his very, very early 70’s) we at least have some perspective. For a young kid, it would be awfully tough or nearly impossible not to spend it recklessly. Like a private destination wedding in a foreign, far away land. A private plane that doesn't serve its passengers microwave trays of salisbury steak (whatever that is) and pop chips, but instead passes out elk-burger sliders and hand cut fries with a lemon aioli. Heck, it’s not John’s money or mine. So we can spend it as recklessly as we want. So there!

Have a nice weekend, and take it from us, chopped chuck and American cheese makes a better hamburger than ground sirloin and roquefort. Any time.

Andy and John

The Good and Bad of the Web 05/31/24

The internet can be bad. If you’ve ever ordered an article of clothing off the internet (and who hasn't?) you know the rule. It never fits. Ever. Take shoes for instance. I know I’m a size 8 1/2 here in the good old USA. But what size am I in Europe? I think I’m a 41. But it could easily be a 42. Shirts, fuhgeddaboutit. Small, medium large, that - I get. But collar size? Sleeve length? No shot. And our size changes as we get older so what you think you know may very well not be accurate. Which brings us around to Marv and his shirt. Maybe the sizes in China are different. Maybe Marv put on a little weight. But Rachel could have been a little nicer. She could have just gazed at his stomach and not said anything, but that doesn't make for a funny ending.

And then the internet can be extremely good. Like for Sid. Remember Sid? He is the son of Al and Joanne. Sid lived in their basement into his early 30’s working on an idea for a “killer app.” Sid was devastated when Al and Joanne took him off the family phone plan (my kids still haven’t forgiven me). And then one day, as if by miracle, Sid emerges from his room to announce he was a newly minted internet multi-millionaire. Funny how that works. So John and I asked ourselves, what would a guy with untold riches do for a wedding. And since we don’t have to pay for it, we had no problem spending Sid’s money. In this era of celebrity weddings, Peltz-Beckham, RFK Jr and Cheryl Hines, Ben Affleck and…wait a minute, that one just ended. Anyway, we wondered what a pair of healthy, wealthy 30-somethings would do if they could do anything they wanted. In the next couple weeks, you’ll find out.

What’s the most extravagant, over-the-top wedding you’ve ever attended? Write us and if we hear something really crazy, we’ll write about it in the blog. Have a great weekend and we’ll see you next week with two new installments of Sid’s big event.

Andy and John

Post Retirement Life. 05/24/24

Once you stop working your responsibilities at work obviously end, but your responsibilities at home exponentially increase. More time to prepare meals at home translates to more time at the grocery store. While I am the primary cook, my wife is the fancy cook. She is particularly amazing at the wok. So an innocent request from me like, “Can you make us that delicious beef and broccoli dish you cook and maybe some veggie fried rice?” Turns into my least favorite part of going to the grocery store: the “ethnic foods” aisle. Here you’ll find Chinese, Japanese, Vietnamese items along with Jamaican, Middle Eastern, Mexican and African foods. Jerk chicken spice anyone? How about Peri Peri sauce? Anyone for tahini paste? I know where they all are. But when it comes to Chinese cooking, my wife will ask me to pick up stuff like hot sesame oil. I have looked at four, mind you, four grocery stores and asked probably ten different supermarket aisle checkers where to find the hot sesame oil and the conversation goes like this. Me: Where can I find hot sesame oil? Them: Sesame oil? Me: No, HOT sesame oil. Them: Here let’s look in the ethnic foods aisle. Me: I was already here but okay. Them: This? Me: No, that’s toasted sesame oil, I want hot.

And don’t even get me started on chili garlic paste. Apparently, such a thing exists. And as I’m checking out, in comes the request for baby bok choy. Anyhow, it was this phenomenon that led John and me to our grocery store comic. He thought water chestnuts were exotic enough. I wanted tahini paste. In the end, I folded like a moo shu pancake.

The other part of being retired is during the week you’re generally around other people who don’t work…kids and grandparents. Hence the chance to receive compliments you might receive at work (‘Oh, you look nice today,” “ Love those shoes,” “Where did you get that shirt?”) decreases. Instead you might get a compliment from your 87-year-old neighbor. But you know, I’ll take it. Something is better than nothing.

So that’s it. I’m flying home from the Greek Islands today and back on the job next week. Thank you John for an excellent job of holding down the fort. Have a wonderful weekend everyone,

Andy and John

SHRINKFLATION 5/17/24

Ever notice what’s written on the new 10 ounce Snapple bottles? “Same great taste, brand new bottle.” Or something to that affect. We don’t know about you dear readers, but John and I would rather have the same great taste in the old fashioned 12 ounce bottle. Just sayin’. You can’t really do that with clothing, otherwise a pair of pants would be a pair of shorts. But if it’s packaged goods, man have they figured this game out. Toothpaste, mouthwash, toilet paper, paper towels, Kleenex boxes, etc. Now it is true that there is a certain nostalgic magic to a glass 6 1/2 ounce bottle of Coke. And it is true that along the way, we’ve been supersized and supersized until we eat and drink more now than ever before. So I am all about going back to the 1960’s bottles, but I’d like them even better with 1960’s prices. Okay shrinkflation corporations, you can charge us 1960’s prices, adjusted for inflation. But maybe not. It might turn out costing us $250 a bottle. And they no longer put cocaine in it, like the old days…

But I digress. Both John and I would rather pay more for the same size. It just feels like they’re trying to put one over on you. But we spent a collective 75 years in advertising, and we know all about trying to fool consumers. You know when any kind of pain reliever, Advil, Tylenol, Motrin, etc says, “no other pain reliever works faster?” Well every one of them works just as fast, but none of them works faster.

Anyway, because I’m thousands of miles away now on a Greek island, I’m going to shrink this blog. But thankfully, we’re not charging a penny more! Same great blog, just less of it. Have a great weekend,

Andy and John

The Club 05/10/24

Let me start by saying that I do not like country clubs. I like golf. I like tennis. I like swimming pools. But I don’t like clubs. First of all, they tend to be exclusive. Which is another word for exclusionary. When L.A. country clubs wouldn't allow Jews in the 1920’s, Groucho Marx, Jack Benny and George Burns said “Screw it, we’ll open our own.” Which would have been great, except they didn’t let the people in who wouldn’t let them in. Full disclosure: my parents belonged to a country club when I was a kid. I used to call it, “The Not Allowed Club.” Somehow I did everything you were not allowed to do. Cut off jeans in 80 degree weather, not allowed. T-shirts without collars, not allowed. Cannon balls in the swimming pool, not allowed. And then there was the dining room. If you’ve never eaten in a country club dining room, you’re not missing out on much. First of all, everybody knows everybody because they all play golf and tennis together and they all invite each other to their parties. So the people from each table are always getting up to come over to say hello, and you are constantly expected to stand up when they come. My dad would say stuff like, “Andy, you remember Mr. and Mrs Rubin and their son Jeffrey.” And he would nod his head slightly upwards, and I would be required to stand and say, “Hello Mr. and Mrs. Rubin, then shake their hands, then sit back down again. Only to rise two minutes later when the Grossmans came by. Secret: I never remembered their names.

John, however, belonged to a tennis club. The all-whites policy was a term he knew as well as the term Jr. Club. When he mentioned it, I remembered that they also had an all-whites policy at the Not Allowed Club. Of course they did. They may have modified the policy over the last few years to allow pastels, but I’m not holding my breath. Although I must admit, I look pretty (damned good) in pink.

That’s it for this week. John will hold down the fort while I go on vacation for two weeks. And then I’ll hold the fort for him. What exactly does it mean to hold the fort? I hope the fort doesn't have an all-whites policy.

Andy and John

May Peace Be With You. 05/03/24

If you’ve ever been to the Hamptons, you’ve seen it. The coupling of a younger woman and a much older man. Good luck with that, because 70 can’t keep up with 40 no matter how hard 70 tries. So how do these seemingly incompatible couplings occur in the first place? Glad you asked. A leading social scientist (whose name escapes me) made a scale, assigning different values to different assets. Intelligence, attractiveness and money being among the highest scoring assets. To serve up a cliche, a 70-year-old male or female movie producer would score very high on the money, power and influence scales, while scoring lower on the attractiveness scale. While the 25-year-old arm candy would score high on the beauty scale, but not very high in the other categories. Does Robert DeNiro becoming a father at age 80 ring a bell? While there is no way these aforementioned pairs should fit together, when you add up the scores on this social scientist’s scale, the pairs make an even match. All of which has little to do with Sam and his much younger wife, Shellie. He liked Shellie and was amazed she went for him. But with age difference comes different responsibilities. Most guys in their mid 60’s aren’t first learning how to put on a diaper (unless it’s on themselves). The inspiration for this comic came from a recent experience I shared with John. My wife and I (we are only 3 weeks apart in age, I might add) took care of our granddaughter one weekend. On the list for that Saturday was taking our granddaughter Charlotte to a 3-year-old birthday party at the NY Aquarium in Coney Island. The party room consisted of a bunch of 3-year olds and their parents. A couple of the parents introduced themselves and said, “Oh, you must be Charlotte’s grandfather.” I told John this, and his response was, “Yeah, so?” And I countered, “You don’t think it’s funny everybody just assumed I was the grandpa? He didn’t think that was surprising in the least, so the hell with him (he’s 5-years-younger anyway, the whippersnapper). And that’s when he suggested the school play might be a better venue for our character Sam, who actually IS a 60-ish parent of a small child. Hilarity, well at least awkward hilarity, ensues. I hate it when he’s right.

The other comic this week was very close to an actual experience I had in Japan last year. My wife and I were part of a three-couple trip. We were being led by a guide to the Temple of Peace. To get there, you had to stand on a long line, and then walk, single file, over a narrow bridge to get to the beautiful orange temple which was in the middle of a lake. The line stretched backwards, up six flights of a huge staircase. When we saw the line I said to our crew, “Screw it, why don’t we just run up there to the side of the line and take a group picture with the Temple in the background. Some of the people on the line thought we were trying to cut to the front and I explained, “Oh no, we’re just taking one picture and then we’re leaving.” Trouble was, nobody spoke English except for one person who exclaimed, “No cutting.” When I shared this experience with John, he liked it, we turned it into a comic, and we allowed the idea to cut to the front of our comic line this week.

That’s it for now. Join us again next Friday. With summer just around the corner, we take a trip to the country club. Have a great weekend,

Andy and John

Maybe We're Not That Old, but We're Not That Young Either. 04/26/24

I’m one of those people who refuses to listen to Sirius XM channels like “Classic Vinyl.” I have friends that listen to that, but all they hear is Led Zeppelin, The Doors, Pink Floyd, etc. The consequence is they’re not exposed to new music. And listen, I love those bands (except for Zeppelin, so shoot me), but I also want to be consistently exposed to new music, so I listen to a station called The Spectrum. It plays “the whole spectrum” of music from oldies to newies (is that even a word?) to everything in between. So it was while listening to The Spectrum that I started to appreciate an artist, a country rocker and brilliant lyricist named Jason Isbell. And wouldn’t you know it, he started becoming popular out east, not exactly a country music stronghold. He wound up playing at this old music hall in my town, capacity 850 seats. We eagerly attended the concert and loved it. About a year later he had become so popular he filled Radio City Music Hall, capacity of 6,000. My wife and I eagerly attended, figuring we were in for a similar experience, except the tickets were suddenly way more expensive. He hits the stage with a rock ‘n roll crowd pleaser, “The Two of Us.” The audience leapt up, the music was so driving, you couldn’t sit. Dueling electric guitars, horn sections, drum solos, the whole nine yards. I turned to my wife and said “Wow, this is even better than I expected!” Then the next song starts and we sit down. But a funny thing happened. The people in front of us remained standing. The people behind us remained standing. The people to the side of us remained standing. And nobody sat, even during a slow, contemplative song about love and loss. We took a few songs off and sat. There were two huge monitors on either side of the stage showing the band, so if you sat down, you could see some part of the monitor if you craned you head to the right and looked in the space between this tall guy’s shoulder and his much shorter girl friend’s shoulder. I shared this experience with John and the result was our “Concert Standoff” comic. Gives a whole new meaning to “Standing Room Only.” I mean, even the front row was standing, and there was nobody in their way. So it was a great concert, but note to the other 5,998 people in the audience, “Sit the f*@k down!!!” Just sayin’.

Our second comic was a New 60 spin on a Passover Seder we had just this past Monday. We had our traditional Seder, with 14 people. The meal started around 7:30. So did Game 2 of the NBA playoffs featuring my beloved New York Knicks. That’s right, 7:30, during Passover, in New York City. But, I reasoned, that’s why the good Lord invented digital video recording. As we discussed current events, followed by the story of the Jews going through the desert with their unleavened bread (I happen to love matzoh, but prefer it lightly salted with a little butter), 7:30 became 8:30, became 9:30 as we’re singing Dayenu. And at 10, I went into my bedroom, changed clothing and exited still in my suit, only this time, it was a sweat suit. In a flattering shade of navy, I might add. In case the point wasn't made, I turned the game on at 10:30. John couldn’t believe I did that, but he thought we could mold it into a damned good comic.

If you think this behavior was a one time thing, I once attended a Rosh Hashanah dinner in my Eli Manning jersey. Which begs the question, why do my favorite teams always play at the most inappropriate times? Or, as my wife might put it, it’s not the games that are inappropriate.”

Th-th-that’s all folks for this week. We’ll see next Friday with two new ones hot off our MacBook’s,

Andy and John

We're Not THAT Old, Are We? 04/19/24

Ever been stopped for some kind of traffic violation? C’mon, admit it. Of course you have. When you’re young you can try to charm the police officer. When you’re older, you hope maybe they’ll take pity on you. Or like Al, you can be clueless. About a week ago, I practiced one of my go-to moves: the rolling stop. It’s an art form. You have to go slowly enough to give you plausible deniability (No officer, I came to a stop), but fast enough to not slow down your arrival time. I thought I had it down to a science, but was mistaken when the flashing lights of a police car appeared from behind me. I looked in the rearview, then I looked in front of me to ascertain just who was getting pulled over. And upon seeing no other vehicles, I concluded the officer must have been pulling over yours truly. I rolled down the window and a female officer approached the car. She said, “Do you know why I pulled you over?” I replied, “Uhh, I did a rolling stop? I thought I had stopped sufficiently.” She said, “License and registration please.” I proceeded to pull every card I had out of my wallet until I found the license, and then started rooting around my glove compartment for the registration, turning over papers until she stopped me and said, “That’s okay sir.” She saw that I lived in the same Westchester town where she pulled me over and said, “I’m going to let you go with just a warning this time, but be careful next time.” Wow. Talk about lucky. But then there was this other time about a year ago, when all the charm in the world did absolutely nothing for me. That time, I got pulled over by a much meaner policeman. He looked like he was in his early twenties and thought you had to be like Kojak to be a cop. What was my infraction? Yep, you guessed it. Another rolling stop. And Kojak appears from nowhere, lights flashing. After the license and registration bit, he walks back to his car. Aha, I think. This is where he sees I’m a local boy and lets me off. But no, he comes back and hands me a ticket. “Maybe he missed my address,” I think. So I remind him. “I live just a couple blocks from here,” And he replies, “Then I don’t have to tell you how dangerous this corner is.” I resisted the urge to reply, “There’s absolutely no other car coming or going here. It ain’t exactly 42nd Street and Times Square!”I resisted, but just barely. I told all this to John and we made a mash up of our respective traffic violations and nailed poor Marv with a ticket.

Our second comic comes from an observation I made to John about seeing the Miami Marlins pitching coach, Mel Stottlemyre Jr., walk out to the mound. To those of you who aren’t into baseball, he is the son of Mel Stottlemyre, a former Yankee, who was their star pitcher when I was growing up. Now here was his kid, Mel Jr., trotting out to the mound to talk to his pitcher. Peeking out from under Junior’s cap was a full head of white hair, and he had a white beard to boot. John countered with, “If you think that’s something, how about Mike Yastrzemski, the Giants outfielder?” Again, for those non fans, Carl Yastrzemski (pronounced ya-strem-ski or just “Yaz” for short) played on the Boston Red Sox during our misspent youths. I said, “Oh, Carl’s son?” And John replied, “No his GRANDson,” and another comic was born. By the way, Mike himself will be likely retiring in a couple years. The point is, there is a progression among young male sports fans. First we dream of being professional ballplayers. Then, in our twenties, we watch a game and think, “Damn, some of these guys are younger than me!” Then it’s, “Wow, he just retired and I’m older than he is!!” Followed by, “No, that’s his grandson.”

So that’s it for this week. A special shoutout to my wife Joanie, who is getting honored tonight for her years of service on the board of Girls Inc., and one final thought: The Mets third baseman just pulled his hamstring. If they need an emergency replacement, I’m still here. Have a great weekend,

Andy and John

No Good Deed Goes Unpunished. 04/12/24

A couple months ago, my son stayed over for the night. The next day we went for a hike. There are a few beautiful hikes where I live. One is along the Hudson River, so close that you can hear it lapping up against the shoreline. Another is along the Old Croton Aqueduct trail. A former aqueduct that used to carry water from the Croton Aqueduct to New York City is now a spectacular wooded path following the same 26.2 mile route. So we had a couple options for hikes that I knew well.

Did I choose one of those? Noooo. I had the bright idea of going somewhere where the two of us had never been. Near Bear Mountain. We got lost. Waze’s fault, not mine (of course). So we tried Plan B, but the road leading up to the trailhead was closed. By this time it was around 3 pm and the sun set about 5:45 or 6pm. On the way back towards home we spotted a trailhead and parking lot around a small lake. The time was now 3:30. “Ahh hah,” I said. We parked. We looked at the trail map. I said, “Got it. The red trail to the yellow trail and then we head back to the beginning along the blue trail. About 3 miles. Shouldn’t take more than an hour, so we should be back around 4:30, plenty of time before sundown.” Man plans, God laughs. We started off on the red trail, straight uphill. My son was bounding along the rocks hopping over the tree limbs and then would wait patiently for me to catch up. I would reach him trying hard to disguise how heavily I was panting, and then we’d continue. Next the yellow trail, exactly where we suspected it would be. So we continued along it until we found the blue trail. But we never found the blue trail, so we kept going certain it would be right around the next corner. 4 pm came and went. And then the yellow trail ended in a clearing and we had no idea where we were. Oh, and it was now 5pm. And getting darker. And colder. So I pulled out my phone and called 9-1-1. They in turn called the park rangers who told us in no uncertain terms to stand there and don’t move. They said they’d be sending a guy up in an all-terrain vehicle to pick us up and drive us back to the lot. That took until 6:15, in total darkness, and we were both freezing cold. I asked the park ranger what happened to the blue trail sign. He said, “Oh, that’s off to the left of the trail and downhill so a lot of people miss it.” I asked him how many stranded hikers he had to save each year and he said, “About 5 or 6 per week.” Now I’m thinking, “So why don’t you change the freakin’ sign????” But we needed his help to get down the trail so I wisely kept my mouth shut. And did I mention a monster snowstorm was headed to the east coast that night?

I told this story to John and we immediately got this week’s first comic out of it. And rest assured, Al and Joanne eventually make it back safely. We just ran out of frames.

The other comic is about a phrase a lot of young working people use now: Quiet Quitting. Nice alliteration, no? You don’t actually quit your job, you just come in late and leave early and do the least amount of work possible. John related that to a union work slowdown. I related it to the last 40 years of my career.

That’s it for this week. A huge shout out to all our faithful fans and readers. We surpassed 1.1 million viewers who interacted with us on Facebook last month and over 26,000 to our website. Keep spreading the word. Have a great weekend and know that we couldn't do this without you,

Andy and John.

High Finance 04/05/24

No, “high finance” is not some dumb pun about getting high while balancing your checkbook. It’s about how we’re not as smart about our finances as we think we are. At least some of us. At least me. Like when it comes to splitting the dinner check. John and I discussed the many different ways a dinner out can become awkward. You know the drill. Some people have a glass of wine and that’s it. Others start with a cocktail, maybe a second and then ask about splitting a bottle of wine that’s only $105.00. They want to split the check and you are confronted with the following dilemma: do I say something, like “I only had one glass of wine,” and sound like a cheap son-of-a-bitch? Or do I grin and bear it? I choose grin and bear it. I kid you not, I was once at an agency celebration for winning a new account. About 12 of us went to a pizzeria, we ordered a bunch of pies with various toppings and when the check came, somebody said, “I only ordered the plain pie, I don’t see why I have to split evenly with the people who ordered toppings.” This person was summarily shouted down. So that’s one side of the equation. The other side is the people who intentionally (even if it’s not intentionally, it still seems intentional) order the most expensive thing on the menu, knowing the couples will split the check. If you remember Father Guido Sarducci from Saturday Night Live (or SNL for anyone under the age of 50), he once did a hilarious skit about the Last Supper which featured an apostle suggesting that Jesus order the most expensive thing on the menu, a gigantic steak, because everyone is going to split the bill and wind up spending the same amount of shekels. And I’ve been on the other end of the equation where someone says, I only ordered two appetizers, and then want to itemize the entire bill so it comes out fairly. Yes they may end up saving themselves a few shekels, but they’ve lost me as a future dinner companion. Of course there are subtle variations on this theme. Like if you’re the person who ordered the most expensive thing, and then you offer to pay more or to leave the tip and then the other person agrees. Not okay. I mean, you’re just offering so you seem like a good person, but the other person is NEVER supposed to take you up on it.

Okay, I got carried away. The other came out from John’s head, but affects MY apartment, so I immediately related. John and his wife will do bulk shopping at Costco. My wife and I also have close friends who swear by everything Costco. We even have a Costco card because having one enabled my wife to get a big discount on her car lease, believe it or not. But Costco goers of the world, I have something to say to you. If you live in a house, go for it. If you live in an apartment, avoid it like the plague. For instance, we’ve got a refrigerator/freezer combo that divides vertically. Lots of room for the double door fridge, but not so much for the freezer part. It looks like a quarter of the total unit. When you go to Costco, you don’t just buy a package of turkey breasts, you buy the whole freakin’ turkey. What am I supposed to do with the hamburger buns? Chuck them? And paper towels? Costco sells them by the 12-pack. Toilet paper? Anyone for a Charmin Ultra-Soft, mega-roll 12-pack? So the question becomes, would you rather have room to live, or room to store the wonderful bargains you found at Costco? Even though Costco, according to Wirecutter, has the top rated vodka in a blind-taste test, I’m sticking with Tito’s. The liter size.

That’s it for this week. Enjoy the wonderful April weather complete with tornadoes, thunderstorms and tennis ball sized hail. Maybe enjoy the weekend inside. And don’t worry, you’ll have plenty to eat. If you shop at Costco.

Andy and John

Choices. 03/28/24

Do we eat in? Or go out? Do I exercise? Or take a nap? Should I call so and so who I haven’t spoken to in a long time? Or should I wait until tomorrow? Pay the bills? Write that speech? All choices, none of them life or death. And when you get to a certain age you make the choice, chill out at home with my zillions of cable channels and streaming platforms, or babysit for our granddaughter? Now I’ve heard of some people that won’t babysit, even when their kids ask them to. That’s a choice. For my wife and I, when our daughter calls and asks us to babysit our granddaughter, we jump at the chance. She’s very entertaining, and we get to give her back at the end of the day. I’m guessing John feels the same way since he’s jetting off to see his daughter and granddaughter more times than I can count. But what about when something really cool and unexpected befalls you at the last minute. Something you didn’t plan for but are dying to do. Then you’ve got a conundrum. Not really, because if you promised you’d be there, you have to be there. On the other hand, how many more times are you gonna get a chance to see Bruuuuce? A few months ago, my favorite all-time band, Steely Dan, was playing an hour away from me and I asked myself, how many more chances will I get to see them? Either they’ll stop touring or I’ll stop being able to stay up past 11 pm. Point is (is there a point?) if I bought the tickets first and then came the request to babysit, then I’d probably go to the concert or the play, or the game. But if we give our word we’ll be there, then we’ll end up singing “Ricky Don’t Lose That Number” to our grandchild. True story: a relative recently left me her guitar. No sooner did I receive it than I ordered a book of children’s songs. I haven’t played in more than 40 years, but what the hell, Steely Dan here I come. Or at least Peter, Paul and Mary.

Our other topic was again about a choice. Marv made a choice to cook dinner. He also made a choice to not realize he had to first remove the stickers off the onions and peppers before he sliced said onions and peppers. Alright, if you want to get technical about it, he didn’t actually make a choice, he just forgot. In every relationship, people assume certain responsibilities. You cook, I’ll do the dishes. You take out the recycling, I’ll make the bed. The trouble comes when one person tries to do the other person’s task. It inevitably ends up with a “You’re doing it wrong!” kind of reaction. It might be subtle, like when my wife loads the dishwasher and I move the plates and glasses so we can fit more in, or when I make the bed, and she remakes it so it actually looks like it’s made. Oh well, you’ve got to give Marv a hand for at least trying. Don’t you? One of these days John will write the blog and I’ll illustrate the comic. On the other hand, I wouldn't hold your collective breaths.

Have a good weekend and we’ll see you next week.

Andy and John

Deal With It. 03/22/24

Hey, we’re getting older. Things we used to love don’t interest us as much and things we used to not like suddenly become more interesting. Stuff changes. Also we tend to accept our strengths and our weaknesses. For instance, at age 70, I finally realized I’m not going to play shortstop for the Mets. Hell, I couldn't even make shortstop on my intramural softball team, and I was the captain! As for John, despite playing soccer for his college, chances are he’s not playing center-mid for Inter Miami, feeding Messi as he attacks the goal. Ain’t happening. I have friends who love tennis and begrudgingly, they’ve switched to pickle ball. Which gets us around to our Zoom Smile comic. For those of you who have followed the blog you know that both John and I became grandparents in the last couple years. For my wife and me, our granddaughter lights up our world. But we each have out strengths. I’m the funny one who makes her laugh. When it’s time for a hug or she gets a “boo boo,” she runs to grandma. I remember one time she came to visit us. We live in an apartment at the end of a long hallway, perfect for running. If you’re three years old. So our daughter and son-in-law buzz up from the lobby that they’re coming up. My wife and I come out to the hallway and squat down to our granddaughter’s level. She shrieks with joy when she sees us and comes running down the hall. I open my arms in expectation, and she runs right past me to my wife. That’s what happened in real life. In the comic, well, John and I think them up, so the kid smiles for the grandpa. You can’t make this stuff up. Oh wait a minute, we just did.

Our other effort is about March Madness. Both John and I know a lot about sports, different sports but we know about the ones we follow, and neither of us know one solitary thing about men’s college basketball. I used to love it, now, not so much. Alright, I know one thing. I went to grad school at Northwestern and they’re in the NCAA Tournament, otherwise known as March Madness. So when John brought up the fact that our Friday comic would intersect with the beginning of the tournament, I said, “I don’t know a thing about the tournament.” And he replied, “Neither do I.”Perfect. Listen, wherever I’ve worked, they’ve always had a pool in which you fill out the brackets and predict the outcomes of every game in a 64-team tournament about which you know nada (as in not a thing). The odds of getting the whole thing right are astronomical, like a billion to one, but don’t quote me on that. So we just looked for the colleges with the goofiest names to pick for the tourney. Our first idea was to pick Murray State, because we once knew a guy named Murray, but, too bad, they’re playing in a different tournament. We went for Auburn and Drake, because we grew up eating Drake’s Cakes. Now we realize this is only a northeastern thing, but if you never have tasted a Yodel, you’re really missing something. Pro tip: a Yodel must be dunked into a glass of milk. And we ain’t talking soy milk either. But I digress. Stetson University came in a close third, but neither of us looks good in a Stetson hat, so Drake it was. Anyway, enjoy the tournament and the comics and we will leave you with one piece of advice: bet the house on Purdue. No, just kidding. We know nothing about them.

Have a great weekend and we’ll see you next week,

John and Andy

Are We Really THAT Old? 03/15/25

Has it really come to this? Writing wills??? Some would say, “Oh, it can wait,” while others among us might say, “Are you crazy? You haven’t done it yet? What’re you waiting for?” If you’ve been with us this long you know our two main couples have remained married through the years. But in order to switch it up and more accurately reflect life, we also have a divorced guy who is a serial dater, Craig, as well as a guy the same age as the rest of them, Sam, who married someone many years his junior, Shellie. He met her on a beach so it’s sorta funny her name is Shellie, get it? But they had a kid, Sammy Jr., and now it’s time for them to write a will so Shellie and Sammy will be protected when the day comes that Sam is no longer with us. Or in legalese, when he predeceases her. What is it with legalese? I suppose it’s meant to be precise so you can’t possibly misinterpret it, but for many of us (at least for John and me) it seems indecipherable (see, lawyers aren’t the only ones who can come up with big words). For instance, let’s say you’re babysitting your granddaughter and she wants a third cookie, when her parents told you (and her) that she was only allowed to have two. The kid bargains for a third cookie, and I imagine I might say something like, “C’mon now, we agreed with mommy and daddy that you can have two. Time for bed.” Followed by a major pout. But if the grandkid wanted to become a lawyer, she might respond, “Grandma and Grandpa, since the size of the cookies were not specifically predetermined, you are not rigidly bound by the doctrine of stare decisis to follow that dictum and therefore departure from that decision is justified (kinda like the Supreme Court did with Roe vs Wade). It doesn’t have to be that complicated. *Thank you to a very talented lawyer, dear friend of too many years to count and faithful reader, Roberta Goodman, who helped make sure that sentence made sense.

Onto the second comic, the one where Al bursts out in song “I don’t care what they say, I won’t stay in a world without love.” This actually happened to John, when he worked in advertising, during a client meeting. And like Al, he got no response. But let John tell it:

Back in my Mad Men days (the advertising career, not the show) I was sitting in yet another boring client meeting. Everyone was discussing recent consumer research findings or the relative merits of end-aisle displays versus floor decals or some such nonsense. I wasn't really paying close attention as I was working on a rather unflattering (but painfully accurate) caricature of one of the more annoying clients. Someone in the room said something that started with "They say that..." and then some gibberish followed about market share, then another piled on with "Well, they say..." and then yet another started their sentence with "They say..." I didn't really care to find out who exactly "they" were but the repetition of the phrase struck me as funny and so I said, "I don't care what they say, I won't stay in a world without love." I expected a few chuckles, maybe a suppressed chortle or two. Possibly even an actual laugh. Instead, the response I got was more akin to the audience's response in Mel Brooks' film "The Producers" after viewing the lavish opening number in "Springtime for Hitler." I sheepishly explained myself by saying, "you know... the song." Then I attempted to sing a bar or two. Crickets. Then everyone went back to the research report and I continued finishing the caricature. A short time later I was moved off the account. Fun times.

I instantly loved his story because it also happens to be something I do all the time. And I mean all the time. Usually in my head, thank goodness. When I’m feeling lonely, Neil Diamond comes up, “I am I said, to no one there…” When someone I’m fond of pisses me off, I go to Hamilton, “I will kill your friends and family to remind you of my love." I’m watching the Knicks and it’s John Fogerty “Put me in coach, I’m ready to play.” I’m actually singing this, in my head, to the television. And it doesn’t have to even be a situation. It could just be someone introduces me to their friend Eleanor, and right away it’s off to Beatle land, “Eleanor Rigby,” I cannot help it. And now you know. Yeah, “I’m just a little bit crazy.” The question is: did John realize this quirk about me when he thought up this comic? Hell no. As it happens, he was actually talking about himself!

Have a great weekend and we’ll see you next week, but remember, “Every time you go away from me (us), you take a piece of me (us) with you…”

Andy and John